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    Default im back... for reasons.

    Uh, yeah.
    So, I'm returning because of stress, and a few f***** up things.
    My gramma is having surgery Friday, might die.. this might sound heartless, but I could care more about that, she's given me nothing but crap my whole life.
    CaptainDorkyPanda is not supposed to talk to me or see me for a week? Why? I gave her a hug. A f****** hug.
    And one of my bestfriends keeps attempting suicide.
    So I'm returning for support, to have you guys make me happy, etc...
    So uhm, hi....?
    Every second, every minute, every hour, every day; it never ends.
    You say this is suicide? I say this is a war, and I'm losing the battle.

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    Oh my.

    *Hugs Desired*

    Life is retarded sometimes...
    It started with a whisper, and that was when I kissed her
    And then she made my lips hurt
    I could hear the chitchat, take me to your love shack
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    I'm sorry about that.

    You're always welcome back. if you need someone to talk to, I'm all ears
    ooh wee it's the ultimate feeling
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    Welcome back bro!
    I'm so sorry to hear this

    But I know you don't want us making the bad stand out so....

    I hope this can make you laugh ^^
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    This song was made for Jiggmin Village! I hope this brightens up your life, even by the smallest.

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    It is for that reason I should be known as an anti-hero.

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    Sorry to hear that. Hope it turns out for the best. If not, then we'll help you get over the stress you're in.

    But for now, welcome back to Jiggmin Village.

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    Glad you're back, but I don't like the reasons. Feel better bro
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    well, I hope things get straightened up for you.
    hopefully JV'ers wont be stupid and act like a jerk to you.
    I made it myself
    I'll work on it again soon I promise

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    Yay, welcome back!
    (Something funny, interesting, or even mildly entertaining should go here, but I can't think of anything at this particular moment.)

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    Hey.

    Raar!

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    Quote Originally Posted by desiredfury View Post
    Uh, yeah.
    So, I'm returning because of stress, and a few f***** up things.
    My gramma is having surgery Friday, might die.. this might sound heartless, but I could care more about that, she's given me nothing but crap my whole life.
    CaptainDorkyPanda is not supposed to talk to me or see me for a week? Why? I gave her a hug. A f****** hug.
    And one of my bestfriends keeps attempting suicide.
    So I'm returning for support, to have you guys make me happy, etc...
    So uhm, hi....?
    Right, lets see what I can do to help.

    Stress, best way to deal with stress is to do things you like, and if you don't like something enough to devote some time to it, you've got to experiment.

    There is nothing I could do to make you like your grandma more, all I can say is, respect that other people care and try to comfort them, you'll become closer to them and show your grandma that you're strong, and who knows, maybe she'll see it in herself that she was wrong to give you crap. I hope she gets better.

    Has she been grounded or something? Have your/her parents intervened? If so.. That's just ridiculous, and I condone sneaking out to see her, my friend went through a similar scenario, and the parents eventually saw that it was stupid to stop it.
    If she isn't seeing you simply because she doesn't want to, then maybe you took the hug the wrong way, not every gesture is a gesture of love, if she wants to just be friends you're far better off with that, love isn't forever, and friendship definitely lasts longer, intimacy is only a bonus that comes with love, it doesn't add anything on top of being friends, so why worry about it.
    Just keep in touch, and just understand each others feelings.
    Not much advice I can give there, little information.

    As for suicide, you've got to show your friend that there is more to life, that pain is temporary.
    Whatever he/she is going through to make them feel this way is going to end, and they can continue unfazed, a lot of suicides revolve around something bad going on in the family, whether it be death, divorce, whatever, but these things over time sort themselves out.
    There is more to see than can ever be seen, more to do than can ever be done, and the quicker your friend realises that the pain they're going through right now will end, the quicker they can get their life back on track.
    Again, I have very little information, going based off of generalisations.

    Sorry if I wasn't able to help, but if you need to talk, need answers, whatever, just PM me, and I will do my best to help you with anything, I've had my fair share of troubles in my life, so I can relate and talk about what I did.

    And lastly, welcome back.
    I hope everything goes alright, take care.

    Remember what you said about being a friend now?
    The movement in her hips strikes the hour when the poison sets in
    How do you wake?
    How do you sleep at night?
    Remember what you said

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    Welcome back.
    Life can kick you in your ass sometimes, I feel you. I hope things start turning around for you, for the better.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lightnin!!! View Post
    Right, lets see what I can do to help.

    Stress, best way to deal with stress is to do things you like, and if you don't like something enough to devote some time to it, you've got to experiment.

    There is nothing I could do to make you like your grandma more, all I can say is, respect that other people care and try to comfort them, you'll become closer to them and show your grandma that you're strong, and who knows, maybe she'll see it in herself that she was wrong to give you crap. I hope she gets better.

    Has she been grounded or something? Have your/her parents intervened? If so.. That's just ridiculous, and I condone sneaking out to see her, my friend went through a similar scenario, and the parents eventually saw that it was stupid to stop it.
    If she isn't seeing you simply because she doesn't want to, then maybe you took the hug the wrong way, not every gesture is a gesture of love, if she wants to just be friends you're far better off with that, love isn't forever, and friendship definitely lasts longer, intimacy is only a bonus that comes with love, it doesn't add anything on top of being friends, so why worry about it.
    Just keep in touch, and just understand each others feelings.
    Not much advice I can give there, little information.

    As for suicide, you've got to show your friend that there is more to life, that pain is temporary.
    Whatever he/she is going through to make them feel this way is going to end, and they can continue unfazed, a lot of suicides revolve around something bad going on in the family, whether it be death, divorce, whatever, but these things over time sort themselves out.
    There is more to see than can ever be seen, more to do than can ever be done, and the quicker your friend realises that the pain they're going through right now will end, the quicker they can get their life back on track.
    Again, I have very little information, going based off of generalisations.

    Sorry if I wasn't able to help, but if you need to talk, need answers, whatever, just PM me, and I will do my best to help you with anything, I've had my fair share of troubles in my life, so I can relate and talk about what I did.

    And lastly, welcome back.
    I hope everything goes alright, take care.
    Thanks...
    She's not allowed to see or talk to me because her dad....
    So uh, yeah..
    Every second, every minute, every hour, every day; it never ends.
    You say this is suicide? I say this is a war, and I'm losing the battle.

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    Welcome back!
    I hope in the village you find the help and support you need to keep going on the live always head up.
    Que vaina dice ahi?

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    Quote Originally Posted by desiredfury View Post
    Thanks...
    She's not allowed to see or talk to me because her dad....
    So uh, yeah..
    My friend went through the EXACT same thing with his girlfriend.
    Her dad is very religious, and he didn't want her seeing any boys, my friend would just sneak her out whenever her dad was away so he could spend time with her, and have her back before her dad was.
    Worked like a charm, and when the father did find out, he wasn't mad, because he noticed that my friend and his girlfriend truly liked each other to go through all that effort to spend time with one another.
    To start off with, she might not have been all for it, but overtime she saw that it was better to make her own choices than listen to her father, because you've got to do whats right, you've got to do what makes you happy.
    Now, go get 'er tiger.

    Remember what you said about being a friend now?
    The movement in her hips strikes the hour when the poison sets in
    How do you wake?
    How do you sleep at night?
    Remember what you said

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