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Lightnin!!!
Right, lets see what I can do to help.
Stress, best way to deal with stress is to do things you like, and if you don't like something enough to devote some time to it, you've got to experiment.
There is nothing I could do to make you like your grandma more, all I can say is, respect that other people care and try to comfort them, you'll become closer to them and show your grandma that you're strong, and who knows, maybe she'll see it in herself that she was wrong to give you crap. I hope she gets better.
Has she been grounded or something? Have your/her parents intervened? If so.. That's just ridiculous, and I condone sneaking out to see her, my friend went through a similar scenario, and the parents eventually saw that it was stupid to stop it.
If she isn't seeing you simply because she doesn't want to, then maybe you took the hug the wrong way, not every gesture is a gesture of love, if she wants to just be friends you're far better off with that, love isn't forever, and friendship definitely lasts longer, intimacy is only a bonus that comes with love, it doesn't add anything on top of being friends, so why worry about it.
Just keep in touch, and just understand each others feelings.
Not much advice I can give there, little information.
As for suicide, you've got to show your friend that there is more to life, that pain is temporary.
Whatever he/she is going through to make them feel this way is going to end, and they can continue unfazed, a lot of suicides revolve around something bad going on in the family, whether it be death, divorce, whatever, but these things over time sort themselves out.
There is more to see than can ever be seen, more to do than can ever be done, and the quicker your friend realises that the pain they're going through right now will end, the quicker they can get their life back on track.
Again, I have very little information, going based off of generalisations.
Sorry if I wasn't able to help, but if you need to talk, need answers, whatever, just PM me, and I will do my best to help you with anything, I've had my fair share of troubles in my life, so I can relate and talk about what I did.
And lastly, welcome back.
I hope everything goes alright, take care.