You wouldn't say "I'm being hated on" for example because "Hated" has an "ed" verb ending.
You would say "They're hating him", "ed" is just.. Beyond incorrect.
"They're being hateful with" is also wrong, "They're being hateful towards" works, in the situation you were trying to imply, if I were to say "They're being hateful with Jerry about Tom now", it'd be correct, but still a terrible way to organise that sentence.
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